They do the "eggshell shuffle" - tiptoeing - hoping what they do or say won’t upset their vets today.. Where is the medal for the Vet wives, the ex-wives, and the ones who stay? They fight a battle every day - trying to take care of him; sometimes losing themselves along the way - praying, ever-loving, always trying. Who hears the cries they try to muffle? Where is the medal for all the wives who do the "Eggshell Shuffle"?